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Help me spice up things in bed!

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Check out this fun, honest conversation the grew out of Cierra’s very real question:

What are some ways to spice things up in the bedroom with your significant other? I need some ideas!!! We're up for anything!

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I hope this would give you a little information and help. This will get them everytime. Good luck.

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That is definitely very cute! If only I had the confidence to wear that like I used to before I got pregnant! Once I had my daughter (she is now 4 months old)  I lost all my confidence and have had a hard time losing all of the weight I gained when I was pregnant

   
BETSYSGOLD replied to 3 years ago
Cierra Farnsworth

That is definitely very cute! If only I had the confidence to wear that like I used to before I got pregnant! Once I had my daughter (she is now 4 months old)  I lost all my confidence and have had a hard time losing all of the weight I gained when I was pregnant

@cierrafarnsworth Maybe try something like this but a babydoll type that will cover a little more. This is a little more opened.

   
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Cierra Farnsworth replied to 3 years ago
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@cierrafarnsworth Maybe try something like this but a babydoll type that will cover a little more. This is a little more opened.

@rush_yv I will definitely look into that! I think I would like that better until I get my baby weight lost!

   
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Candles first of all, hot bubble bath, and how about lotions? Nothing too intimate here, it's a very good question. Also, find a great bottle of wine and ask him to join you.

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Okay, thank you! I just wasn't sure if I would get in trouble for asking and didn't want to offend anyone. This is a great idea, I'll have to go get some candles and wine this weekend! :)

   
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Joni Hoffman 3 years ago

I agree and a nice back massage doesn't hurt either. Beyond that, I better leave well enough alone lol

   
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Joni Hoffman 3 years ago

and anyway, what is that???  I have been separated for two and a half years lol

   

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Try these!

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I really want those so bad, the bed restraints! 

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Noel Miller 3 years ago

Yes!

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Thank you! Very nice selection!

   
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Spencer's usually has a pretty good selection of items that can spice up the relationship. They are inexpensive and vary in type, here are a few I would recommend. Good luck!

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Kimberly Gross 3 years ago

a good massage with some oil or lotion always goes a long way, if you are unsure of your techniques, google or youtube some massages

   
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I'll definitely check those out! I'm going to the mall this weekend so I'll have to stop in at Spencers and get something!

   
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 A little role playing goes a long way!!
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my husband and i are looking for the same thing.  i am interested in researching tantra and maybe introducing those techinques

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What is that?!

   
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Kimberly Gross 3 years ago

well the way i have heard it explained, its exercises that a couple does that in the end causes them to become aroused and feel even  more of a connection, its like you feel each other without even touching each other and its so intimate that you literally just can feel heat from each other...again just  from the explanations i have heard and the exercises i have seen on youtube and tv

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Cierra Farnsworth replied to 3 years ago
Kimberly Gross

well the way i have heard it explained, its exercises that a couple does that in the end causes them to become aroused and feel even  more of a connection, its like you feel each other without even touching each other and its so intimate that you literally just can feel heat from each other...again just  from the explanations i have heard and the exercises i have seen on youtube and tv

@kimberly_gross I'm going to research that! It actually sounds really interesting and I wouldn't mind giving that a try!

   

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and some nice lingerie these 3 are always winners good luck

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Joni Hoffman 3 years ago

yup that helps too


   

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Sexy lingerie and a few toys and youll have yourselves a very fun time!! Massage oils and  stimulating oils are also good to add in!!

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I agree with a lot of these ladies here. Romance is the key & would start off with some lit candles and sexy lingerie & maybe a little bubbly.Best wishes!

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Thank you so much! Im going to try it out. Im going to order some lingerie and have some nice things set up for his birthday next month!

   
Breesha Taylor replied to 3 years ago
Cierra Farnsworth

Thank you so much! Im going to try it out. Im going to order some lingerie and have some nice things set up for his birthday next month!

@cierrafarnsworth Sounds like you got the right potions for a romantic evening.Hope all the advice helps you in spicing up your relationship. I think everyone needs some spicing every now and again...at least for those who strive to keep their spouses happy at home.Best wishes!

   
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What we do is write a bunch of things on little pieces of paper that we want to do, try, or have done stick it in a bowl then pull it out and act out on it.

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Kimberly Gross 3 years ago

i love doing that, we also like to play rummy and either make a bet with each hand or with whoever wins the game,just to make it interesting


   
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I'll give that a try :)

   

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Have you ever heard of the app desire? It's pretty fun! My husband and I really enjoy it. You should look at it!

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I've never heard of it! I'll definitely look into it? Is it free or do you have to pay for it?!

   
Kyla Mikesell replied to 3 years ago
Cierra Farnsworth

I've never heard of it! I'll definitely look into it? Is it free or do you have to pay for it?!

@cierrafarnsworth it's free :) 

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Cierra Farnsworth replied to 3 years ago
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@cierrafarnsworth it's free :) 

@kyla_mikesell even better! I'm going to download it now so it's already on my phone for when the hubby gets home! Thank you! ;)

   
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What you could do really depends on how freaky your sex life is (or was before baby!) 

If you used to use toys but haven't in a while- wear something you feel comfortable in and give him a show. Or do so while watching an adult movie. Or if you have the fund for it, there are places you can go for strip tease lessons and other women showing you what to do to feel sexy and not break you neck LOL for my part of town divaden.com is the place to go for that but you may have something similar in your area! 


Best of luck to you and your hubby :)

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I would love all of these. That blue corset is so gorgeous! I've been wanting handcuffs, those furry ones are cute too!

   
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These dice can be fun!!


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Those look fun, I really need to purchase those! A fun but yet sexy "game" ;)

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You could get one of these. I did a review on it earlier this month. My husband loved it. It came with the corset, g-string and skirt. It's very cute and easy to wear as it has stretch to it. You cold check out my review with more info here: http://uniqueproductreviews.blogspot.com/

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I will definitely check it out. Im sure my husband would love it!

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The best way to keep the spice going is to just throw it on him like I am sure you used to. I don't like the trouble of dressing up and roll play. When the mood hits I go on the attack and he really likes it.

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Good pair of lace or fishnet stockings never hurt. I also take pole dancing classes to build back up my confidence. Ask your husband his desires and fantasies, then go from there because you'll know exactly what to do to satisfy him!!!😊😝

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